Mr. K and I just had our 7th anniversary!

I got seven roses from him! Haha. Receive it once in a blue moon feels good, but sometimes I still think that it’s a waste of money. =x

Anyway, I’m sorry that I didn’t took any photo with Mr. K that day. Swt. Here’s the pic taken at KL instead.

Okay I know I look pale lol!

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Another celebration would definitely be Annabelle’s big day!!!

See this birthday girl aka doraemon freak is so happy with her doraemon cake XD

The delicious food…and girls. LOL.

Birthday girl and I aww <3

I want to clarify that I wasn’t being emo or something (well i’m not elly lol). I was reading some interesting article on the newspaper and someone snapped this pic. Swt.

Please ask me personally if you’re interested in that ’interesting’ article. LOL.

Always stick together!!! <3 (spot the odd one, not Swinburnian) hahaha! =X

Mr Tay aka Ah Jang, with his awkward smile. Swt.

Three of us!

BIG PRESSIE from us to ANNA!! Kakakakaka. I really love the wrapping and thanks Wilfred for making the pressie looks so nice!

That’s all. I’ll try to put up different pics on my blog from those in my Facebook next time. Hehehehe!

Have a good day!

张玉莲 (Chong Nyuk Lian @ Lenny)
1963 - 2009
Suffered from cancer since end of year 2007
Had medical treatment at Mount Elizabeth Medical Centre, Singapore
Cremation at Kuching Culture Village (Kuching Buddhist Society)
Body ashes placed at Nirvana Memorial Park, Kuching. (富贵山庄)

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Today is my mom’s ‘first seven days’ (头七) so we all went to Nirvana Memorial Park early in the morning. For your information, my dad got my mom Nirvana’s package and we are all satisfied with it. They are really experienced in things and guide us (not everyone know about these stuffs okay). One more thing is that, Nirvana memorial park has really heaven-like screnery which is so different from other chinese grave yard.

Her favourites

Now you see the recent me. Told you I am alright, haha! ARghh grow fatter already.

Till then. Lunch time!!

不抑止内心的邪恶而相信某些力量会洗清他们的罪孽，是不符合佛陀的教义。

我们长遇到某些人在临终前更改宗教信仰，他们误以为这么做能够洗清他们的罪孽和令他们上升天堂。他们也希望能获得简单及较好的安葬。其实，这些人多年来已经信仰了某些宗教，突然又去接受另外一种全新而陌生的宗教。他们这么做无非是想从新的宗教中获得赎罪。这是很牵强和很离谱得事，纯粹是种梦想。有些人士在无意识状态下或死后被强迫转信另外一个宗教。那些宗教狂热份子这么做，误导了人类，以为他们那种信仰是通往天堂的捷径，并以为有一个高高在上的‘神’，能为他们洗清罪孽。这种信仰其实是在鼓励人们去犯罪。

根据佛教的教义，没有任何一种生命，能替他人洗清罪孽。当一个人能理解到自己犯错时，应该努力去多做善事来弥补，这样才可以牵制过去所造成的恶业的坏影响。

我们经常到医院目睹那些宗教狂热份子，围绕在临终病人的床前，向他们许诺：‘死后能获得重生’。这是利用那些病人的无知和恐惧的心理。可是，他们却无法像他们神圣的经典所说的那样，让病人痊愈。如果他们能做到，我们就不需要医院了。佛教徒不应该成为这些人的受害者，佛教徒必须通过学习佛法一一知道苦是人类基本的组成部分。唯一的灭苦之道，就是净化自己的心识。一个人自己所缔造得苦，也唯有他自己能够消除。一个人不应该希望自己在临终前改变宗教信仰，就能洗清自己的罪孽，获得赎罪。

一个临终前的人，他将来的命运是掌握在他临终前的那一念，这一念是根据他今世所累积的善与恶业而显现的。不管他在最后一刻改变什么信仰，结果都是一样的。

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我的一些非佛教徒朋友帮我母亲祈祷，我很感激他们的用心。

至于那些人，所谓的宗教狂热份子，过度怂恿我病重及意识非常弱的母亲放弃佛教而更换去其他宗教，身为最亲密家人的我们必有权拒绝进行一些不必要的动作。若有心的话，不该说一些不敬他人宗教的言语，更在他人居处大声喧嚷，防碍他人，就只因为被拒绝对我母亲做某些宗教动作。

这不是辈分的问题，更不是年龄比你小就没有权力说话。你要别人尊敬你的宗教，必先尊敬别人的宗教。以我家姐妹的个性，我们就不会让我即将跟随佛祖的母亲被你的胡言乱语影响。

即使我母亲是你的妹妹。

WOOHOO? FINALLY, I can have a proper post now after such a * semester. I guess the results will be published pretty soon. And there will be my next * semester. This is how the * life goes on.

So wassup? lol.

Talk about the week I was having my exams. Totally nightmare and I almost had heart attack everyday. Probably my menstrual period caused me ’serious’ emotional fluctuations like no tomorrow. The most important thing was I lost my appetite for the whole * week. It was like I was so damn hungry, physically, but I felt nauseous once I saw food. AW. Was that anerexia? Lol. And I am now trying hard to feed myself with delicious food to get my appetite back. T_T

So yea what else? Father’s day is here so of course I got something for my dad. I bought shirt for him, a cake and tapao-ed some food home for dinner tonight.

HAPPY FATHER’S DAY TO ALL DADDIES

For dad. The second Seed’s shirt I bought for him lol. I just think he looks good in it.

Cakeeeee! American Choc!

Yea our dinner. Bad presentation? Cuz these were take-away. Still tasty though. But my dad complaint that these were too little swt.

So yea it’s the holiday now. The thing that I’ve been looking forward to for the whole semester. T_T I feel like dreaming lol. I don’t have any fix to-do-list for this holiday…I guess this is good. Oh well.

I almost forgot about my third dose of HepaB injection. SWT. I used to scare needles but….I think exams are scarier.

Till then.

She’s only two (on April) but her thoughts and intelligence are comparable with kids at age 4-6. She talks like an adult. She sings and dances. She knows to give comments on certain things. She always ask questions.

She knows A to Z. She says 1-10 in three languages: Malays, chinese and english.

Now she’s learning multiplication that starts from 2.

LOL.

Please donate money for these poor cats n dogs. For your information, the donation jar is placed at the counter in the library [where the students book for discussion rooms].

Two-year-old Emily is biting the chopstick.

The more I tell her not to bite the chopstick, the more she wants to bite…

Eating unagi lol, and learning to use chopsticks.

Eating Tempura now.

Nyum?

Ice cream time!

Lol great chill!

This is the nyummy expression xD

Oreo - female

Mocha - male

1+ week old

1-2ml milk every 2-3 hours

0.5ml vitamin once a day

I wasn’t choking her. She just felt comfortable this way.

Tiger look-alike Mocha lol

Mocha’s eyes 100% opened today; Oreo’s eyes 60% opened.

Mocha is doing very well and looks healthy. Oreo is the one makes me worry - cries the most and always struggles during milk feeding time. Besides, she is slightly thinner than Mocha. Sigh, have to force her to drink in order to survive. However, Oreo has enough energy to struggle n ‘push’ my fingers off while I was trying to hold her for milk. I think this is a good thing lol.

The hottest forever.

<3

So you guys are wondering what did I get for my Honey…

HA HA HA HA! Rach’s first cake ever!!! [Ignore the crack, it’s so yummy ok!]

*ahem*

It’s actually the second cake I’ve baked. The first one failed terribly. Nah, at least I succeed this time. So yummmyy :3

Can you see the nom nom? Taken with my sis’s hp.

As for V’dinner, same old place - Magenta. Magenta always has different V’day 5 course set meals every year, and never disappointed us. SO delicious!! I’ll just show the main course here due to some problems with my cam.

Stupid pic of me

Piggy pic of Kheng

My blurry yet yummy lamb

His blurry yet so yummy beef [I didn’t try, cuz I quitted beef.]

Happy Valentine’s Day everyone!