I is back from mah weekend trip to Meeeweeeee! xD

I love that layer, yes THAT layer of cloud. <3

WOW breakfast from MASwings swt.

Welcome to Meeeweee LOL

Best place in Meeweee - hotel LOL. (Imperial Hotel)

Buffet dinner in the hotel……

The best of the best enjoyment I can get in Meeeweee is listening to these people singing. Omg they are really gooooodd.

Lasagna @ Dave’s Deli

Spaghetti Carbonara with turkey ham @ Dave’s Deli

Meeweee is a little bit boring to me. It may be because I’ve no local guide to bring me around >_< I still way prefer Kuching!!!

张玉莲 (Chong Nyuk Lian @ Lenny)
1963 - 2009
Suffered from cancer since end of year 2007
Had medical treatment at Mount Elizabeth Medical Centre, Singapore
Cremation at Kuching Culture Village (Kuching Buddhist Society)
Body ashes placed at Nirvana Memorial Park, Kuching. (富贵山庄)

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Today is my mom’s ‘first seven days’ (头七) so we all went to Nirvana Memorial Park early in the morning. For your information, my dad got my mom Nirvana’s package and we are all satisfied with it. They are really experienced in things and guide us (not everyone know about these stuffs okay). One more thing is that, Nirvana memorial park has really heaven-like screnery which is so different from other chinese grave yard.

Her favourites

Now you see the recent me. Told you I am alright, haha! ARghh grow fatter already.

Till then. Lunch time!!

Some people just have to learn.

I really don’t get it why they brought their children to hospital; let them running and making noises here and there while the patients here [especially my mom] seriously needed to rest. They never scold their children.

Just like today, I’ve warned two boys next bed several times and they still make noises wtf. Their mom was here for some sort of medical check up I think [as I heard some of their conversation. LOUD, okay?] Guess what they did in the room? First, the mother told the two boys to talk softly because the aunty next bed is very ill [she meant my mom]. I felt so much better after hearing this but…I was wrong. The mother started to teach her boys to do homeworks, and asked them to do reading IN HOSPITAL, something like ‘When the spring is stretched it becomes longer’ stuffs. A few hours later, the mother fell asleep on the bed, left the two boys making fun with pulling the curtains, turn the TV on and off, giggling and talking loudly, open and close the washroom door.

These two boys even squatted down to see what we’re doing behind the curtains. I looked at them, they looked at me with that kind of naughty smiles. I then asked: ‘Do you want me to ask missy (nurse) to come?’ They then quickly ran away with their super noisy slippers. The problem is, their mother never care about it and made my mom couldnt sleep for the whole afternoon.

ARGHHH.

I then ask Mr. K to check whether there’s single bedroom available and we are here now. So nice lah. My dad actually asked for single bedroom at the beginning but too bad it was full that time. We only get shared room with two beds. The past few days were fine but not today. Sigh.

One more thing, not only kids but adults too, talking loudly in groups or on phone at the corridor. What I meant by ‘loud’ is really LOUD. This is the bad thing in private hospital. The nurses wouldn’t bother about matters like this. Swt. Until I couldn’t stand it and open the door to SHH at them. Gosh..

Anyway, transfered to single bedroom already. Hope these won’t happen again so that my mom can rest well. Of course, there’ll not be things like ‘new’ patient coming in at 3am (that’s really shitty I tell you) and these people loved peeping people sleeping until I had to wake up to pull the curtain over. ZZZ. Interesting isn’t it?

Well…that’s all for now. Guess I’ve to stay here for a few more days. Woot.

Tonight would be my second night spent in Normah with my mom. Now I know hospital isn’t a fun place to go, and it’s really freezing cold somemore. Cold until I couldn’t fall asleep at night with freezing fingers and feet. You might ask why I didn’t put on more clothes. Gosh, I was wearing two shirts, two jackets and socks. I couldn’t stand the cold anymore and walked down to the emergency entrance. The Mr. Guard talked to me as he thought I was waiting for someone. We then chit-chatted for awhile before I went back to my mom’s unit again.

I’m now wearing thicker jacket and thicker socks. Swt.

Don’t ask me what happened to my mom as I’ve been so lazy to explain. Just pray for her =D

0.9% Sodium Chloride + 5% glucose

The ‘ginger fish porridge’ prepared by my aunt for my mother. Too bad my mom lost her appetite [since quite awhile ago]. It tastes really nice!

I don’t know how many nights my mom has to stay here. I just hope there’s no patient coming in so that I can sleep on the bed next to my mom’s tonight…T_T

It was such a random decision to me to dine with some high school classmates. Gosh. Miss the time so much.

Nyuk Choo, Beatrice, Molly, Nigel were there with me @ Java Juice. Glad to see that everyone is working hard in pursuing further education. (I always have the same words zz) We really enjoyed ourselves, especially when talking about some funny stuffs happened years back and…trying to recall our teachers’ names! OMG so tough!! LOL.

L-R: Nyuk Choo, Molly, Nigel, Me, Beatrice.

Actually there are still some of them but failed to make it to the dinner. =\ And yes we gonna have another limteh session again. =D More photos in my Facebook.

Last but not least…YEA YEA YEA I’m pregnant for 4 months in the picture above happy now?? -.-"

如果各位有注意报章上的新闻的话，应该会知道前几天在某某区域附近有个女的要在2-3楼的店屋上跳楼自杀。

那个地方就在我家附近。

当时我载我妹放学回家。那条路不曾堵车的竟然大排长龙。而我又想去那里附近的店买点东西，就绕了另外一条路。我妹眼力好看到消防车。我们也都以为是着火了。那里可能着火都没有看到烟咧？刚好我要去的店就在附近，就看到一个女子站在窗口哪里，真的好像要跳酱。下面的人多过菜市场。不知道是要救人啦还是看热闹。我也不管啦就回家。

我的第一个想法是：苯，两楼而已跳下来哪里会死。

第二个想法是：ngaiti，这世界上到底有什么事情大到要自杀？

隔天看到报纸后才知道，原来这个女子是因为爸爸不相信她没有吸毒，而想以死来证明清白。但是最后没有死，也就是没有跳的意思。众人劝说成功后，那些“观众”还拍手。真是搞不懂。

那种感觉真是无法形容。在外看到一个女子想草草结束自己的生命；而回家看到我妈还努力和病魔搏斗….

Happy [belated] Wesak Day everyone!

Long time no blog (a proper one *ahem*). Sorry that I’ve removed the previous entry regarding sexual harassment. However, I hope some of you [who have read the post] will take the lesson.

There was a parade in Kuching town for Wesak Day. My dad and sis joined the parade for 普觉佛堂, a buddhist temple just near to Swinburne campus. It is a long story on how Mr. K and my sister found out this temple which hides in the lorong. I prayed for the first and also the second ’slips’ [in my life] for my mom there asking about her health. Well, the results gave us goosebumps, then hopes and confidence.

Since then, my family visit the temple frequently. Every 1st and 15th of the month in lunar calendar. Sometimes, I bring my mom to the temple and recite the Buddhist scripture there. [I’m still very noob in it T_T]

Some of you might ask why I did not join the parade like my dad and sister did. There is only one reason actually - I have weak stamina. Swt. So, Mr. K and I were somewhere at Padungan watching the parade floats and took some pictures. [SOME only, cuz camera went low batt after that swt.]

I finally saw my dad and sister at Padungan. Here comes the unexpected thing. I joined the parade with Mr.K, with short pants and high heels. Mr.K and I walked from Jalan Padungan - Jalan Green Hill - Jalan Wayang - Jalan Mcdougall - Jalan Tabuan - Jalan Ban Hock - Jalan Song Thian Cheok. We stopped somewhere at old Upwell building cuz we parked the car at Tun Jugah building lol.

I didn’t know I could walk this far with my so-called weak stamina, and high heels. Oh man.  

普觉佛堂

My dad and sister.

师兄was so nice to get us lotus flower candles while everyone was on the way.

It was really good experience, which makes me felt so calm.

I know this guy since I was 12. Today, it was our first time to have tea and chit chat together.

OMG.

Happy Good Friday everyone!

First of all, Happy 2nd Birthday to Emily! She’s been a naughty, talkative, clever and bad baby girl. lol. She talks a lot now and can even sings. She has her own very attitude too, the so-called pubo attitude LOL.

Emily with her Minnie pressie Take #1

Take #2

Enjoying her cake

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Those who are into Facebook may know about my kittehs. Mr.K found these two tiny little fellows at his company’s carpark, crying non-stop and shivering. Due to allergy problem, Mr.K was hesitating to take them or not and expecting someone passes by will take them. Well, he took them in the end when some straydogs came towards the kitties.

These kittehs have no mummy. What am I going to do then? They are like only 1 week born babies with their eyes closed. I quickly settled them in a basket with some old clothes to give them warm. I bought them feeding bottle and milk power [for cat] after that. Too bad, the nipple of the bottle was too hard for them and they don’t really suckle well. I got them a baby syringe from pharmacy then. But still, I think they don’t like the milk, swt. It’s quite hard to feed them as they always try to crawl away and cry non stop. I have to ‘force’ them to drink by pumping the milk into their mouth. I even dipped my finger into the milk and expected them to lick it but…fail fail fail. =.=" 

However, they will stop crying if i hold them in my palm, putting them on my thigh and slowly patting them to sleep. I guess they just want their mummy.

See? eyes not open yet!

Fell asleep lol.

New cage I bought for them. Just in case some stupid cats snatch them away at night =\

I wanted to give them away at first cuz I never deal with cats before. But now, I feel like keeping them. Well, see how the things go. I think I’ll bring them to the vet since it’s so hard to feed them. But my mom told me that I don’t have to spend that kind of money on them. Well, money doesn’t matter to me somehow. Eventhough they are just normal so-called ‘kampung’ kittens, all lives are valuable and I just want them to be healthy and grow.

*I feel so much like a mother now lol!*

Anyone of you have experience in this, I’d be glad if you’re willing to share.

I can’t go online these days. Don’t know what’s wrong with my internet connection…tried to call Streamyx but the line always engaged. Grr.

No update at the moment.

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The connection problem is finally fixed. So here’s a short update!

Spot 1: Stutong Market

Case: Dinner with Mr. K

Lo Bak Mee 卤肉面, MYR3. Rating: 3.5/5

Comment: I should have remember where the stall is =\ Nice and cheap handmade noodles with Lo Bak

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Spot 2: Lao Li Cafe & C121, Tabuan Laru.

Case: Dinner with Mr. K, again.

Pork Rice 猪脚饭. Price: Forgot. Rating: 4/5 (C121, Penang somethingsomething Stall)

Comment: Do not underestimate just a small bowl of delicious pork. More than enough to eat with a plate of plain rice.

Crispy Chicken Wings. MYR10 for 5. Rating: 4.2/5 (In front of Lao Li cafe)

Comment: I love it la!!! Always see those Ah Pek eating this with Heineken. Lol. I know it’s not healthy to have this, that’s why I have sore throat after having that. =.=

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I want to thank Helen and Elly here, for being such lovely friends when I’m so down and feeling bad. I guess I’m putting too much stress on myself. Thanks for listening when I’m trying to express and spitting out all my unhappy stuffs. I couldn’t believe I cried over such thing. Swt.

Since I’ve made my own decision, so god bless me.